Bullying
disguise for Halloween? Oh, it's a practical joke and I thought you were
bullying me!
Yes, some
people still try use the ‘ joke’ disguise to hide their bullying. It is sad and
for some reason people use that ruse to do mean and cruel things to others.
It is one area
that seems to stand alone. After the morons who do or say these things to
others they stand back and say, aw come on! It was a joke!
But a joke
is something that makes people laugh, even the person that the joke is played
on. I watch stupid things, one that comes to mind is Jackass type of pranks.
But these are played upon people of their own group, people who expect to be
pranked. If those same jokes were played upon unsuspecting people they would
not be funny, they would be painful, mean and abusive. I am not sure they aren’t
to those people involved but they all seem to laugh and ask for more.
But how
about how we treat others. Practical jokes indeed… a practical joke of pulling someone’s
chair out from under them… seems funny but what if that person fell and got
injured? Then not so funny. What about the report from KTLA News in Mississippi
about the autistic kid who wanted to take ALS Ice Bucket challenge and ‘friends’ dumped
urine, spit and cigarettes on him instead.
Funny?
Here is the test… if the same thing were done to you that you
are going to do to someone else, would you think it was funny? Would you want
it done to you? Would you feel humiliated? Upset? Angry? Dejected?
If so, then why would you do it to anyone else?
Practical jokes are great things as long as they don’t
ridicule, abuse or demean the person you are pranking.
If they do, then you are just bullying someone to make
yourself feel smarter or better. And for you, I truly feel sad. You are not the
kind of person most of us would like to be around and I am willing to bet you
are not a positive thinker or even very happy in your heart.
I am Steve Sapato and I believe our lives are meant to
encourage and help each other. And I teach this through my course on Mental Prosperity via my blog at www.mentalprosperityblog.com
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